Is your communication based on reactivity? (Many times the source is pain from your family of origin.)
What is your God-given redemptive gift? What is your spouse's God-given redemptive gift? (Romans 12 gifts and callings)
Treating Marriage Counseling as Trauma Resolution
Has your communication style as a couple created attachment panic for you and your spouse? Through Trudy's decade + of working with couples, she came upon the realization that couples can actually get traumatized by their dysfunctional communication and styles of relating in their marriage relationship. Many times this communication reactivity can result in each party feeling completely traumatized and immobilized.
When an impossible marriage presents itself, Trudy treats the marriage counseling the same way she would launch head- on into trauma resolution for individuals. Sometimes couples can get triggered by the mere physical presence of their spouse! This creates additional attachment panic when couples start distancing their hearts to stay self-protected and safe.
Trudy uses Holy-Spirit led trauma resolution techniques to expose guarded hearts and attachment panic in relationships with couples. Talk therapy cannot get to the depth of these deep-seated relationship issues. This cutting-edge marriage counseling technique will be different than anything you'e ever tried.
When couples can have new eyes to see each other's attachment brokenness, great strides can be made to re-build the marriage.